Relationships Built in Small Moments


A month ago, I had the opportunity to travel to Uganda. Even though time has passed, the memories I made with the staff, women, and students are still so vivid in my mind. I remember the earthy smell after the rain, the warm meals I shared, and most importantly, the conversations and interactions I had with the people there. Everyone was so friendly, greeting me with smiles and waves, or asking me about my day whenever I passed by.

One memory I want to share was my visit to Namagera village, where I stopped by Nankya Esther’s home. Esther is one of our elderly women who was very active in the past, but age has diminished her ability to participate much physically. She spends most of her days at home weaving baskets. When we visited, I found her weaving in her home. She kindly showed me how to do it and even handed me the basket she was working on so she could teach me herself. Since it was my first time, I was very slow, but we chatted, laughed, and enjoyed the moment together. What amazed me most was watching her thread a needle without glasses or any eyewear. She is incredibly skilled! Esther weaves baskets and mats to sell for income, and seeing her work up close gave me such an appreciation for her craftsmanship.

Esther teaching me how to weave.

Another memorable visit was my time in Nakakulwe village. I spent time with our group of women during their beading session and observed the process of how our jewelry is made. Two women rolled beads while others assembled necklaces that were nearly complete. I sat beside Ednasi and Robinah and asked them to teach me how to roll the beads. Using a tiny toothpick, they showed me how they carefully rolled long triangular pieces of paper into beads. The process required precision, patience, and so much practice. After a few attempts, I successfully managed to roll only two beads.

Beading with Ednasi and Robinah.

Our women were so kind and patient in teaching me these skills. Learning from them and spending time with them made me appreciate even more the talent, care, and time that goes into creating every product.

With the group of Bubugo women.

Even now, I think about the smiles, conversations, and quiet moments we shared together. These experiences reminded me that impact is not only found in programs, but also in the relationships built along the way. I’m grateful to continue learning from and walking alongside such incredible women and families. It’s a privilege to work with them!

Written by Clarissa Quah, Administrative Assistant

 


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